Life changes quickly. Instantly. And then we try and
reminisce the moment it changed and realize how simple and ordinary it was. How
everything was normal when that moment which changed our lives happened. But,
then as it’s been said before as well; life is not a bed of roses there are
thorns too. I think of our daily and sometimes monotonous lives, the
frustrations we endure. I think how we struggle through the platitudinous
nature of our lives; buying groceries, standing in long queues, paying bills,
cleaning everything, managing the house. Even at work, some petty issues put us
in a spot of bother; we get bogged down by seemingly harmless things.
I think of all this and could not help but wonder that
it this struggle which brings out the real value of our special moments. I
myself get trapped into this web of struggle but the key is always to move on
after a storm. Sometimes life can totally screw us. No matter how hard we try;
we do not get the desired results because of different reasons like financial
problems, failed relationships or other things which exhaust us. But it’s in
pain and struggle that we experience growth. Pain, struggle and defeat show us
who we are.
The people around us enjoy success and life seems very
easy for them. So we ask ourselves ‘Why is it a struggle for me?’ And yes there
are some events which do not go in our way as we would’ve liked it to, like
family tragedies, illness etc. These events are beyond our control and these I
believe cause a lot of pain, agony and stress to us.
But, let’s face it to live a successful life we need to
embrace every pain that life throws at us this will allow us to grow and
improve as a person. Once we endure pain then life becomes a lot more
beautiful, we get to know how our people are. We also need to love and accept
ourselves with whatever talent, skill and limitations which we have. At the
same time it is very difficult to implement what I have written but we can at
least try our level best to do so.
